9 strokes to improve men’s sex life
He sloppy in the foreplay, if only once or twice, you won’t say anything, but in a man, it’s easy to become a habit.
So you hate to think “He doesn’t want me to get pleasure!”
“This type of comment can easily be turned into accusation.
Because you want him to guess your wishes, he can’t guess it will make you feel disappointed, so your tone will become blunt and mean.
If you want to change him subtly, the best way is to say something to him during the sexual process: “If you do, I will like it.
“You can explain to him in a low voice: “If a man’s sexual impulse comes from sight, a woman is through touch and hearing.”
“If you treat him with a lesson, he will feel inferior that he is not a good lover.”
This does not help solve the problem.
銆€銆€He is always in the same place after the interaction, you find that his program of making love is unchanged, or rarely changed.
Find a quiet evening to talk to him about this problem, preferably at his home, so that he feels more comfortable.
Let him tell you about his sexual fantasies and then advise him to give it a try.
If he is not an absolute selfish ghost, he will immediately ask you the same question.
銆€銆€You can also honestly tell him that he is not alone in making love, so he should listen to your feelings.
Suggest some new postures and often ask him how he feels, so he won’t think you are blaming him.
But be careful not to go to the other extreme: getting used to the habit of the habit, some traditional postures are guaranteed by pleasure.
銆€銆€He can’t erect you for a long time, stroke, kiss, irritate, he is still indifferent, you are already exhausted.
You should talk to him before being tortured by this situation.
The way must be gentle, because the problem is directed at the dignity of his man.
Dialogue needs to have a sense of distance, just as this question is not directly related to you.
A woman can get along well with a man who doesn’t have sex, not a lover, who is in the same room.
It is best not to let him become like this.
銆€銆€Maybe he has health problems, drugs can be solved, if not, he needs to go to an expert consultation.
Then your love will continue.
But don’t play yourself as his psychologist, don’t do an abrupt psychological analysis.
銆€銆€He is very clumsy, and he is very anxious that he also strokes you, but it is not a place, not light or heavy, every time he is in a hurry, like a red wok.
Can’t go on like this anymore.
銆€銆€In order not to hurt his self-esteem, you can say to him: “Not all women like a way, some women do not recognize strokes (you are not sure that his way is not so bad), but you belong to the kind that prefers to be gentlewoman.
“This is the rule of the sandwich: give him a compliment, take a criticism.
銆€銆€He never asks for joy. Whether you wear thong underwear or sexy underwear, you can’t transfer his attention from the football game on TV.
You feel that you are asking every time, and he is not interested in you at all.
Usually we think that there is no or denial of this problem: more than men’s desires, this is very annoying to women, we all think that it is up to men to ask for women.
銆€銆€Communicating with him is the only way to solve the problem, but pay attention to the skill. He is not a machine. He can’t make love at any time, but you still have some concerns about him. His body needs to be decoded.
Be sure to avoid doubting that there are others in his heart, or crying and crying and complaining that he has no desire for you.
銆€銆€I have never (or almost) never had a climax. It is not that he has no talent, but you can hardly remember when it was the last time he got the climax.
It is not easy for him to say that you always pretend to climax in order not to let him disappoint.
銆€銆€You don’t have to tell him that you are not satisfied nine times in ten times. You just need to say that you have a climax every time. Generally speaking, it takes a woman to get a climax for a while, and you need more time than the average woman until(so you can take responsibility to yourself), so he needs patience.
銆€銆€The first time he ejaculated, you think he is too excited, but the second time, the third time is still like this, your fight never exceeds five minutes.
Criticizing his sexual ability is very dangerous: “Young man, isn’t three minutes too short?””If he is also in a hurry, such criticism will make him more inferior.”
銆€銆€The only way is to cheer him up and tell him that you haven’t even enjoyed it yet, but ejaculation is a very normal physical reaction for men.
Extending the time of ejaculation is not innate, but also requires learning and training.
He can practice on his own, so he doesn’t have to worry about your pleasure.
Let him focus on his feelings, especially the moment he is about to enter the climax.
This way, when you have sex, he can inform you in time, and then you help him to gradually ejaculate.
銆€銆€I want him to help me achieve sexual fantasies. You are very harmonious in bed, but the sexual fantasies in your mind always have no chance to realize, you want to try it with him.
You are worried that he does not understand your thoughts. He will be angry that you want to change people. You feel that it is boring to have sex with him.
If you don’t want to have a similar misunderstanding, just word out in the suggestion.
He said that women also have a very specific sexual fantasies, although he is a good lover, but you still hope that he can cooperate with your waywardness.
銆€銆€Be careful, it is a mistake to let him help you achieve all your sexual fantasies.
Some ideas should stay in your secret garden.
銆€銆€He wants to do something that you don’t want to do. Some of his requirements make you feel very perverted and embarrassed.
You don’t want to be appointed by a rigid woman, you are willing to make him happy, so you think it is your fault.
銆€銆€Tell him: accepting him must be proof of love.
You understand some of his desires, but some things you don’t want to do.
You need proof of time and love.
If you really want to try it, but don’t dare to go in, let him wait for you until you have a desire.
Especially don’t be too stubborn.
Love is also committed to compromise.
If necessary, you can consult an expert to eliminate certain psychological barriers.